Kissing is very Important: Don't Lose Sight of it

Kissing and Expression of love

First Kiss

My friend vividly recalls his first kiss with his wife a decade ago. They were sitting on the couch in her dad's living room and as he leaned over to kiss her, he lost his balance and fell off the couch, pulling her down with him. This was because he was so nervous and tensed up. The fact is that most couples feel abashed to talk about their first kiss more out of embarrassment than anything else.

But one thing that must stand out is that there is no harm in asking what your partner prefers. However make it a point not to ask this question at the time of kissing.

Art of Kissing

Most men all over the world feel that that the women don't open their mouths wide enough while women feel men are too demanding. Basically it boils down to the fact that there is a lack of variety. Kissing does not mean just kissing the lips but there is a need to kiss different parts of your partners face. Remember what theKama Sutra of Vatsyayana says- the two most memorable effect of a kiss is pleasing your partner and that will please you immensely.

Gentle Kisses are Love

Modern sociologists recommend something similar to Vatsyayana. They suggest gentle kisses on the neck, move up to the ear, then go to the lips. Take some small breaks and then come back to the lips. The idea should be to enjoy a kiss in a relaxed manner.

Kissing is an expression of Love

Steamy kissing sessions normally take place while dating and on honeymoons. But later on, when people are in a long-term relationship, they too often stop kissing and lose that intimate connection. A Redbook poll reveals that 79% of women said they don't kiss their husbands nearly as much as they'd like. Bear in mind that just because you are familiar with a partner over the years there is no reason not to kiss frequently. Kissing is an expression of love and once when you kiss you don’t have to say ‘I love you’.

Last word

Maybe reading the Kama Sutra will be a help. It describes many ways of kisses and for a couple these can be a great fillip to their relationship in case they can add variety to their kissing by kissing in as many ways as possible.

Kissing is also a sign of honesty for in case you love and cherish your partner the urge to kiss will always be there.