Women and Cunnilingus: Random Thoughts

The art of doing homage to a woman's sex by a man with his tongue is often referred to as cunnilingus. It is a form of sex associated with passion and is normally practiced by a couple deeply infatuated or passionate. Passion is difficult to define but suffice it say that it does not happen with a long time partner. Why? There is no answer for it except that it is a form of sexual contact that marks a certain deviation from the normal and can only be indulged in by couple in great passion.

Men normally will avoid this with a long time partner like a wife, but when in company of a younger woman or a secret love, this act is more common. There are various techinques of pleasurization of a woman , but that is not the theme of this post. Cunnilingus is an established part of the science of sex, though the eastern sex manuals like the Kama sutra hardly mention it. Perhaps they felt that a woman need not be pleasured as that peroragative is only for the man.

Where do women stand as far as cunnilingus is concerned? The fact is that a woman married for long is hardly likely to be pleasured by her husband in this way. However in case she were to take a lover and have secret trysts with him, the acts of passion could lead to cunnilingus. All I can say is that cunnilingus is basically a part of the manuals to help please a woman and if a man is skillfull , he can make a woman orgasm with just his tongue. It is the one act that represents passion and obviously it happens with lovers.