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Showing posts with label fair girls. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fair girls. Show all posts

Saturday, June 6, 2015

Memoir: Fair Girls and Affairs

Background
Sometimes,  I write on a topic which too many may appear outlandish. Yet I mean no offense and I would vehemently deny the charge of racism though I have affairs and loved only fair skinned girls and women. I am now going to touch a half century of life and yet feel fit as I was when I was 25. I play golf, ride horses and drive around in my BMW and Ford Mustang. I alternate between Mumbai, UAE and Singapore as I head one of the top multinationals in this part of the world. I also write and have I think nearly 10000 posts on the net on at least 50 sites, some closed, some dormant and some active.

I have served in the Air Force earlier and that has been my gateway to the world of women. Girls and women have been fascinated with meeting a man who flies planes at Mach 2.5 + and that adds to the aura of mystery in life for them.
The Fair girls
Women have been a permanent fixture in my life and the word rejection does not exist for me, yet I have rejected umpteen women who are darkish or not fair. I do not know why, but my loves have all been fair women and the fairer the better. Thus an entire legion of dark women has never been part of my life. In India my preference is only for Punjabi, Kashmiri and Tamil Girls (only fair Brahmins). Yes only Brahmins and not others, but I am not a racist.
Outside India Russian and American girls with many from Eastern Europe have been part of my life. I recollect on my first visit to the USA I preferred corporal a pure white blonde girl to a black girl NCO. Nothing racist about it, but my choice was the fair blonde and that led to a rollicking affair, for which I got a reprimand for sleeping with a non commissioned ranker. You can’t break the officer men divide in the military. But I have no explanation for it. But my benefactor the old Foggier stood behind me.

Twenty seven visits to Russia and Eastern Europe were some of the most exciting periods of my life. I had some lovely golden Russian girls as dates and mates.  It was common among the Indian officers and I know of at least two colleagues who resigned their commission to marry and live in Russia. Russia is great, but their women are simply the fairest of all.
Last Word
American white women have also been part of my life and the last affair with a young American blonde doctor was the most serious of them though she was 20 years younger.  There have been fleeting affairs all over. Earlier at least two Brahmin extremely fair Tamil girls from Chennai were my source of inspiration simply unforgettable, but I have no regrets.

I remember at a dance as a young subaltern, I waited to dance with the fairest girl till I got my chance and swept her of to land of love. Yes, so may dark girls who eyed my Air Force emblem wanted to dance. I danced, yes but my preference was for the fair skinned Brahmin girl.  I won.

These are just a few stray thoughts from my journal. I remember Nirad Choudhary wrote Autobiography of an Unknown Indian and rocketed to fame. Maybe it’s about time I wrote something similar and put my thoughts of fair women,  guns and planes on paper.

Thursday, March 19, 2015

My Thoughts on Fairness and Beauty



To start with I must point out that, I lay no stress on this aspect. But I am intrigued with girls who have a darkie complexion wanting to become fairer. Cashing in on this desire the market is flooded with creams that promise a girl become fairer in as less as 4 weeks. Whether these creams work or not, is another point, but millions buy them. In particular the slightly darker girls from South India buy these creams the most. Do they really work? Secondly why do girls use these creams? A small trivia may interest some people that in the Indian state of Tamil Nadu fairness creams sell more than coca cola. Many dark Tamil girls will prefer Punjabi boys who are light skinned and fair as lovers and husbands. This is the reverse color bar. I just can’t explain it. Isn’t this a surprise?.

 

I think the problem lies in our upbringing. Firstly white is associated with beauty and purity and black with bad and evil. I wonder how this concept arose. All the fairy tales from the saga of the Mahabharata to Snow White and Seven  Dwarfs extol the virtues of fairness. I wonder how this happened. One has to go to Africa to realize this fact. The sad part is that when I visited Africa, there also the slightly lighter skinned negro girls were thought to be more beautiful

 

I don't think much can be done about it as these concepts are too deeply rooted in human psyche. Look at the segregation of the Negro by the white in the USA and the Indian matrimonial sites, where everybody wants a fair bride. Where will the darker girls go ?  The recent ruckus created in Parliament by the JD(U) leader Sharad Yadav where he pointed out that color bar exists in India is not far from truth. Even his daughter agreed that a dark girl finds it difficult to get a match compared to a fair complexion girl.

But I do hope that this concept will fade away. I am sure it will though it may take 500 years.




Tuesday, March 10, 2015

Memoir: Fair Girls are desirable as far as I am Concerned

 Page from the Past a Penchant for Fair Girls


Life is short and one must live the way one wants to and that includes a desire for fair women.

Background

Sometimes, I write on a topic which to many may appear outlandish. Yet, I mean no offense and I would vehemently deny the charge of racism though I have affairs and loved only fair skinned girls and women. I am now going to touch a half century of life and yet feel  fit as I was 25. I play golf, ride horses and drive around in my BMW and Ford Mustang. as well as play golf. I alternate between Mumbai, UAE and Singapore as I head one of the top multinationals in this part of the world. I also write and have I think nearly 10000 posts on the net on at least 50 sites, some closed, some dormant and some active.
I have served in the Air Force earlier and that has been my gateway to the world of women. Girls and women have been fascinated with meeting a man who flies planes at Mach 2.5 + and that adds to the aura of mystery in life for them.

The Fair Girls and Life

Women as is known, for all men are a permanent fixture in life and in my case it is also the same. I have had more than my fair share of fair damsels and the word rejection does not exist , yet I have not followed umpteen women who are darkish or not fair. I do not know why, but my loves have all been fair women and the fairer the better. Thus an entire legion of dark women has never been part of my life. In India my preference is only for Punjabi, Kashmiri and Tamil Girls (only fair Brahmins). Yes only Brahmins and not others, but I am not a racist.

Outside India, Russian and American girls with many from Eastern Europe have been part of my life. I recollect on my first visit to the USA I preferred corporal a pure white blonde girl to a black girl NCO. Nothing racist about it, but my choice was the fair blonde and that led to a rollicking affair, for which I got a reprimand for sleeping with a noncommissioned ranker. You can’t break the officer- men divide in the military. But I have no explanation for it. But my benefactor the old Foggier stood behind me.
Twenty seven visits to Russia and Eastern Europe were some of the most exciting periods of my life. I had some lovely golden Russian girls as dates and mates. It was common among the Indian officers and I know of at least two colleagues who resigned their commission to marry and live in Russia. Russia is great, but their women are simply the fairest of all.

The Fair Factor

American white women have also been part of my life and the last affair with a young American blonde doctor was the most serious of them though she was 20 years younger. There have been fleeting affairs all over. Earlier at least two Brahmin extremely fair Tamil girls from Chennai were my source of inspiration simply unforgettable, but I have no regrets.
I remember at a dance as a young subaltern, I waited to dance with the fairest girl till I got my chance and swept her off to the land of love. Yes, so may dark girls who eyed my Air Force emblem, wanted to dance. I danced, yes but my preference was for the fair skinned Brahmin girl. I won.

Last word

.These are just a few stray thoughts from my journal. I remember Nirad Choudhary wrote Autobiography of an Unknown Indian and rocketed to fame. Maybe it’s about time I wrote something similar and put my thoughts of fair women, guns and planes on paper. I have a confession, beautiful fair women remind me of them with a snake, I don't know if there is a connection
All photos  from wiki commons

Monday, April 21, 2014

My Greatest love Flying Supersonics, drink Chivas and a Fair Girl

I got my wings when I was 21 and flew for a decade and a half before quitting to enter the corporate world. Its been one roller coaster ride and now I cannot help felling that Louis Armstrongs immortal song " what a wonderful world" is true for me.I love flying, especially supersonic Mach II interceptors.

Getting into my G-suit was a thrill. I always had a hearty breakfast of sausages, eggs, ham, toast, butter and cheese before a sortie. This is a recommendatory diet ad you are going to experience forces of 3 and 4G snd your blood sugar level must be high. I flew the MIG 21(BIS), THE 23 and 27 and the Sukhoi.What did I feel hurtling at supersonic speeds up in the sky? Frankly I was at peace and always recited the Jap prayer of Nanak, which I knew by heart.I always wanted to extend my sortie, but my flight commander would order me back to base. So reluctantly I would come back and taxi to my hanger.

I always lived the adrenaline that went with my flight and after that I would pick a bottle of Chivas, my favorite Scotch from the officersbar and head for my quarter. My bearer had the snacks roasted chicken and kebabs laid out next to my luxurious bed. Thr lsst part was getting a fair girl in my arms. Somehow I always lijed fair girls and even my Tamil girl friends were Brahamin and fair. In that respect I was color concious. Many girls from America some from USAF, but only fair and no dark ones.

I hope people will excuse me for this.The last part is my exclusive secret, but there is nothing better than to fly at Mach II + and then drink good scotch with lovely girl in your arms. I don't think anything better than thus