Recently a young officer who had been dismissed from the Indian Air Force committed suicide. The sad part is that she killed herself by hanging from a fan not for any other reason than the fact that she loved another senior officer 25 years older than her, a chap called Group Captain Gupta. The poor girl hanged herself in Bhopal at the residence of the officer. Now it has transpired that this young girl was in a a live in relationship with a man old enough to be her father. I understand that this officer had promised to marry her and when he later refused the jilted girl committed suicide.
All this sounds so familiar and in my travels abroad including the USA this is the most common phenomena. Even in corporate parties I find older MD's and VP's escorting girls less than half their age. The smiling faces all around show that every body seems happy.
Let us get one fact straight, per se there is nothing wrong with an older man loving a younger girl . I am sure men who are reading this blog will agree with me and quite a few would have younger girls in the office as mistresses + secretaries.This is the recipe to youth for an older man. Vatsyayana has said and it and recent research in Denmark also substantiates that older men having sex with younger woman adds to the longevity of the man.
The bad part is when a straight forward relationship is given a twist of dishonesty as done by Group captain Gupta. My advice in this matter is certainly have a younger girl as a consort or a lover, but don't mislead. In case the girl asks for the impossible, then its better to break with her.
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