Recently a fellow officers wife decided to go to her mothers home and sue for divorce. The reason? Her husband had slept with her best friend. The husband had a guilt complex and in a way to atone for his act, confessed the same to his wife.
Confession is OK to the padre in the church on a Sunday during confession time. There you can expiate your sins and it may lighten your heart. But such confessions are a big NO to your wife. Its best to keep it a secret. The plan should be to look ahead and put the affair behind you.
The fact is that man is a polygamus animal and at some time in life another woman is bound to make an appearance. Sex will be part of it. Yes! Its infidelity and a sin as per the bible. But can a man help it?
The thrill of bedding and entering another woman cannot be denied. In fact some researchers opine that it may even strengthen your marriage.
Well the long and short of it is keep affairs secret. Have sex and forget. There is a rider in the form of love. That is a different chemistry and will have different solutions.
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