Recently a friend of mine, an ex Major of the US Army landed in from the USA. He was my course mate from Staff College. I was delighted in meeting him, but the best part was that he was still married to his Indian wife. Over Beer and some pork sausages he confessed that he was ‘lucky’ to have married an Indian girl. He voiced some opinions, but I wonder how many will agree with what he said and what I write.
In the permissive atmosphere in the west and the US in particular, a girl loses her virginity before she touches 16 or 17. Numerous research scholars have confirmed this and many studies also point to this fact being true. In contrast because of the moral code of Hinduism, there is a 95% chance that one can marry a virgin in India. Thus in case one wishes to have bride, a virgin bride there is every chance that wish can be fulfilled by marrying a Hindu girl from India.
Sex is a major ingredient of a marriage, but of course there are other factors as well. Religion is big factor as it sanctifies marriage. Marrying an Indian girl means marrying a girl who believes in marriage. The chance of a divorce or an extramarital affair is generally dim, because of the ethos of the religion that governs an Indian girls psyche. Mind you Indian girls can have a modern outlook, but are generally by nature conservative.
Another aspect is adaptability. Here also an Indian girl will score over the more independent minded western sisters of hers. But all in all these factors are for discussion only and the success of a marriage is basically a form of chemistry that cannot be quantified or defined.
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