Undressing a Woman with your Eyes: Harmless fantasy

Recently a friend of mine confessed that whenever he saw a woman or met one at a party or a function he always undressed her with his eyes. He fantasized about how she would look without clothes, without her sari and blouse. He further told me that he would also imagine how she would look with her lingerie and sometimes wondered whether she was wearing any at all.

He asked me if it was normal for him or something was wrong. I have thought of the matter and wondered about it.The religious books tell us not to look a ta woman for carnal pleasure, but religion is a guide and I am afraid it doesn't take care of human nature. Human nature is complex and I don't think anybody can divine how it functions. It goes with a 'mood' of a man or woman.

The fact that must be appreciated is that women have the  tremendous attraction for men. I think this is right and proper unless you are gay. This is ordained by a super force call it God or whatever you will. This attraction is the basis of society and without it, the human race in a few centuries would become extinct. Thus, let us accept that attraction is normal and desirable. Women also want this as part of biology. What would happen if no men desired women ? No man courted a woman ? I think a woman would feel terribly unhappy.

Coming down to the fantasy part. I think it's perfectly normal for a sane and god fearing man to look at a woman and covet her. Before he can do that its but natural for a man to feel how the woman before would look without clothes. It's really a harmless fantasy and makes life so interesting. Many may feel it immoral or bad, but I am sure women also accept it. Thus, I told my friend not to worry at all as its is a normal outlet of imagination and sex. Yes! it's a part of sex and without it, we all wouldn't be here.

The Attack on general Brar was a Cowardly Act

News has emanated from London that Lt General Brar now 78 years old, was attacked by 4 assailants who tried to cut his throat with a kirpan. This incident took place at 10pm when the General and his wife were emerging after dinner from a London hotel. The General was however a tough nut and he fought with his attackers. His wife also raised an alarm and many rushed to help Brar. Like cowards and rats the attackers fled the scene. The general was whisked by an ambulance to hospital in 10 minutes and is now recuperating at his home.

Who were the assailants? In all probability they were militant Sikhs who have been targeting the General for almost 2 decades. General Brar was the div commander who led the assault on the Golden Temple which had been defiled by Sant Bhindrenwale and his gang of hoodlums. What ever the Sikhs might say that the Sikh militants had defiled the temple as over dozens of scotch bottles were recovered and many young girls had gone missing. Bhindrenwale was the anti-thesis of everything the Sikh gurus stood for, namely compassion and piety. It was only right that he and his gang were eliminated.

General Brar only obeyed the call of duty, as the Army commander General Sunderji detailed him for this task. So blaming and attacking Brar for Blue Star is uncalled for. One wonders what is the rationale for attacking a 78 year old man. We hope Scotland Yard can nab the killers and finally its about time the impression that India is a soft state is erased. Why not the Indian intelligence agencies go after these cowards?